I've noticed alot of people have had similiar problems. I get a "requesting game from [ip]" message and thats it. No, disabling logging doesnt go anything for me.

Have them hammer the server until it lets them in... It works for me.. very annoying, errr.. annoyance.

After putting the server up on lobby it starts to fill up rather quickly. Yet, I still cant connect. After DMZing my box I'm able to connect yet I lose connection immidiately after.

Solution:

Dont_forward=0

excellent, thank you sparkjim

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