Okay, I have two computers.

On one of them I am running a dedicated server.
On the other I can't join my server.

I load up Soldat all normal like, then go join game and request the servers. I see my server, but its ping is '???', so I ping all and it will not get pinged. I try connect anyways and it just sits there 'requesting server'. When I check my dedicated server it doesnt recognize my attempt to connect to it.

Both computers are using Norton Internet Security.

Even when I've disabled both firewalls it still will not recognize that I am trying to connect.

Also a friend connected to the server, but was told he didn't have the map (even though he did)

I just don't know what to do. I have looked into enabling certain ports and whatnot, but I dont know how to do that.

So, any help anyone can give me will be appreciated.

-Brodie