Anyone noticed that lately, there has been mass kicking by the server, past 3 servers iv been on the server spammed saying that people have been cheating.. so now im banned on about 3 servers, loads of other people are banned also... pissing me off quite a bit cuz im gunna end up getting kicked on all servers i like playing on

my question is

is it my router that maybe messing things around, or is it just a glitch in the new ini settings and dedicated sercer

Soldat servers detect certain thing, such as packet frequencies and contents. If a client's connection isn't standard, they will most likely be kicked (often only a 24 hour ban).

Check what's running in the background while you're playing Soldat...
If your computer is running a program that modifies how Soldat runs in any way (speed, etc.) then you will be getting flood kicked by the servers.

Technically your router shouldn't be altering your packets or their transmission.