hi i keep getting reports from some people that they cant join my server. all it says is "connection accepted"

now im getting that same problem on some servers servers my friends own. the thing is all my other freinds can get on that server. we all have the same connection type and all have the same settings. whats going on? its really pissing me off!

Maybe you should turn the firewall off...

i dont have a firewall on

Did you try what the stickies say?

Running a Soldat Server, make sure the ports for the server you're trying to join are open as well.

all my ports are opn and yes i triend what the stickies said

Are either of you using DSL/Cable? You may have to set up port forwarding on your modem before you can host/join some servers.