I don't know what's up really, everytime I join a selfkill hosted server (and that is the majority of the european clans's servers + gather) I get a connection problem. This never happened before, and it doesn't happen at all in servers hosted elsewhere. Weird part is that I can see others moving and talking, I can talk too and they can hear me.
blaa, I'm going to talk with the host anyway to see if he knows anything about it :>

edit - nm, it's gone now, suddenly, like it had appeared
edit #2 rah, guess what, it's there again.. sorry for bump :|
edit #3 figured it, it's the isp that's causing it (changed connection, tried, and it was fine). I guess I'll have to badger my ISP or change it :(