I can't host and I think it's because of my router. I know I have to forward ports and stuff but I really don't have a clue how to. I've looked on the tutorials for this kind of thing and can't follow them :S If anyone can help I would really appreciate it :D

Oh and another thing.. my ping appears as ??? in the lobby and is unpingable, when my friends try and join it just stays on the 'joining game' message thing.

this happens to me too, in fact i just asked the same questrion,,, lol ill let you know if i get an answer