i cant seem 2 set up a server i do all the thigns u people say 2 do i use the dedicated server and all that no matter wat i do i cant seem 2 get it 2 show up in the lobby when my friends try to join it just says requesting gsme and it stays there its really frusttrating plz help me = ].

There are lobby issues that you cannot do anything about, they are problems with the game that will be fixed.

The reason they cannot join is because you have not forwarded the ports through your router's firewall and to your server computer. please go to www.portforward.com for help, and forward: 23073 TCP and UDP, 23083 TCP to your server computer

Umm, i have this same problem. But Soldat isn't on the application list.