I made a server and everyting is running fine i have everything done and even logged on using soldat admin but when ppl try and join my server it just says requesting and wont connect...and its reistered in the lobby in all.

Does the port that the lobby says differ to the port your server is running on?
Software/Hardware firewall?

I dont think you have opened the neccessary ports

Can u gimme a bit of a guide line i just was never good with the whole firewall ports and all that crap...if u cant thanks anyway

read this guide:

http://archive.forums.soldat.pl/topic.php?topic_id=18763

Ive read it over and over again but i need thats in leman's terms si i can understand it i would really appriciate if anyone could help and thanks to anyone who tried.