Ok, short and sweet it's not appearing on the list for my friends to play, and I know it's not the firewall because it's worked fine before, and is as undependable as the wind, one second it comes on list, next it isn't.

HELP!?

this is a known problem. MM is currently working on rewriting much of the code that handles lobby transactions in the dedicated server, client, and in the lobby server code itself.

So I have to wait!?!?! >=(

Anyway I can figure out my server ip and port then in the meantime?