Hey, Every time that I try to play online i click "request servers" after a few seconds a message pops up saying that either the lobby is not responding or it is some to do with my connection. This has happend every time for the last year or so and it is really annouing as ican only fight bots. Could someone please help me? THANKS.

do you have internet? ... (well some one had to ask)
Make sure your lobby.txt is up to date. Maybe the lobby server was down. You can always try connecting to servers through the all-seeing-eye thingie ASE (google it)

I think its your firewall prohably blocking access.

Disable any server filters. If this does not work, edit \Soldat\lobby_servers.txt to say this:

lobby.soldat.pl
selfkill.com
lobby.soldatserver.com